OCB wrote:Genghis the Engineer wrote:We tried Aikido for 3 years - mainly for the discipline and “zen” components, but it was clear he’s no natural budoka.
Nor is virtually anybody else - it's enthusiasm and application that get the vast majority of people to shodan and beyond, not talent.
I'm pretty certain that the same is true of most other sports.
G
G, I’m sure you’ll get all grumpy on me for these :
1. Jitsu/Jutsu v Do, a long and torturous argument. Sure, Do could be called a sport - definety not so for the former (pedant mode off).
Fact is my kid didn’t have the “ki” (yet) to “get” budo. I took a shot, hoping it would help him. We’ve talked about it as recently as a week ago, and I’m a colleague of his Aikido Sensei- bizarre coincidence- and we all agree that the day might arrive my kid could maybe take up a martial art again. Just not now.
2. My kids clearly understand I’ll be training them when I see they are ready. My younger boy -7 yrs - found out last week by accident I am/was an instructor in a specific Japanese martial art. He was sworn to secrecy (I hate when folks label me as a martial artist), but that lasted all of 16 hours before he was telling his mates at school. His older brother did exactly the same, and I made it clear then (and now) that Daddy doesn’t like it.
I’d rather he said I played piano in a brothel...at least Parents Association nights would be more of a laugh
Actually very little disagreement from me here - yes, I practice a Jitsu, and from the perspective of competition, it's most definitely not a sport. But, there's a level of physical engagement, training discipline, use of muscle memory, and so-on that brings any martial arts into the sports domain.
Kids are always an issue with such things aren't they. From the perspective of somebody that young it's all about some glamorous cartoonesque thing that it really isn't about. The pure physicality of something like Judo they can often handle well and enjoy, but the more intellectual aspects and requirements for repetition less so.
As you say, perhaps simply not old enough for the discipline of it.
No children myself, but I have a friend - who for some years was both a single mother, and world top 10 in UFC. Her attempts to persuade her son to never use any variation on the phrase "My mum's a cagefighter" failed miserably
Personally I don't encourage anybody in my club under 16, and decline outright anybody under 14. Young children (or their parents anyhow) looking to take something up I direct to the local Judo centre. That's for a fairly sophisticated kempo jiu jitsu style that really isn't suited to younger practitioners, for a whole bunch of reasons varying from complicated anatomical theory to routine use of joint locks.
G
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