Eight weeks is a long time in politics, it felt like almost 14 years.

Anyway, time for a long-overdue update.
Firstly, I'd like to thank everyone for the wonderful advice. In particular, I was aware of the angle of attack causing stall thing, but very happy to have it drummed in. I think what I was trying to say was that if I'm low and slow, I need to do something about it and in practice yes I want to lower the nose, but that is also likely to mean chucking in some power. Or at least that's how I see it now.
Quite a lot has happened in the 8-ish lessons since my last post; I'm some 25 hours in now. Swapping my attention from the runway to the airspeed and back is now pretty natural.
About being way too high, I have learnt that base is more than just getting configured, I now feel free to use base to lose as much energy as I need to without getting as close to the trees, power lines and other nasties, as I might on final. I'm also getting comfortable with whacking in an extra ten degrees of flaps if needed. This means that most of the time my approach is decent, and there have even been times when I was getting a bit low (and potentially slow, see above).
It was a bit of a revelation that I had become so comfortable with getting it down there, that I occasionally may (should) add power here and there to keep it up, and more generally, just keep going with all the relevant controls (and trim! Oh, the trim!) all the way to the ground.
About the drag curve, actually I've just started studying Aircraft Gen and it's in there so I'm getting used to it. About the base to final turn, it's all good now, I'm descending, nose down. In fact without wishing to appear super-naive, I don't quite understand how anyone would feel they should reduce the angle of attack enough to stall on base to final. Need to learn more about that.
I have a copy of Stick and Rudder but am only browsing for now. Going back to the theory, I've now passed five of nine. I'm very happy that I was advised to do Met sooner rather than later and I passed (93) on 26th May. I immediately started on Nav and I finished the material (Pooley's and Easy PPL) a couple of weeks ago, but it's a bit more challenging to do mock questions on the Tube etc as I need the whizz wheel. I'm hoping to cram / revise this weekend and get it done. I was even able to start and ace Comms last week and I'm now thinking about FRTOL (with Irv Lee) whilst it's fresh in my mind, although perhaps some more RT experience would be good first.
Talking of which, over the last few lessons grinding circuits some good things happened. I do pretty much all the RT at this point, and the landings have become good enough that we made a trip to North Weald (the solo diversion) last week for a couple of touch and goes, so I got to:
1) Talk to Farnborough Radar and North Weald Radio; first time I've spoken to anyone who's not Elstree Information.
2) Land somewhere that's not Elstree!
So flapless landings, glide landings (aren't they all, I chuckled), and keep doing what I'm doing, and first solo is looking close!
This was a fantastic experience, probably the first time I really felt like a "pilot".
As for the landings themselves, it's a bit of a blur but since my last post I set an in initial target of making the first couple of circuits every lesson count, just making sure to bleed off the height well in time on base / final. That in itself was a game-changer, having more useful circuits per lesson. Then it was the flare - first it was too soon, then it was too late, and then I was flaring too high again.
This was frustrating for a couple of hours, but I believed in myself and FI. Finally, I understood (thanks FI) that the flare is arguably technically two parts, the first is getting the attitude level so as not to dump the prop in the runway, then let it sink a little more and only then start to apply back pressure. This was a game changer along with learning to recognize the "ground rising" or as I prefer to see it, the runway suddenly widening.
I knew it was going well when FI said a few more like that then it's North Weald, also after one lesson he said "that's exactly what we're looking for" which made me happy because I think he's really investing in making me as good as possible rather than "just" good enough.
Coming back from North Weald, there was a bit of a crosswind, and it didn't faze me. At first I crossed controls trying to get lined up early, then FI just said it's tiring and there's more drag; best to just crab it in and use the rudder and aileron to get aligned at the end. He was right, it wasn't too bad at all.
The big surprise was on long final (my first). I thought I was set up nice and early, but kind of missed my usual mental "triggers" where I'd normally turn base to final, so I had to bleed off some more energy than I expected in the last few hundred feet. Interesting how one would think a long final is easier because one has so much time to get lined up, but it's not that simple.
I've also started booking Saturdays with a different FI as well as my usual Sundays, because I know what the weather can be like and I want to keep the momentum up. I'm about a year in and I remember from last year how it goes. So far, have missed 3/3 Saturdays (including tomorrow) due to wx and then FI wasn't well. But generally pleased with the momentum.
So hopefully can get Nav done tomorrow and circuit time on Sunday... Thanks again for all the insight and support and I'll try to update sooner next time!